![]() No one can read someone else mind 100%, but you most certainly can reach a higher status of mutual connection where you just know things, but there will always be times when directness is needed. with anything between us, because it's the best and sometimes only way a solution to a problem can be reached. ![]() I both initiate and respond whenever I can, and on a personal note I would always want someone to tell me honestly if they feel upset, annoyed, etc. There really isn't any right or wrong way to do things, but you know this too, one or certain ways of communicating makes you feel a lot better. This is where I believe that you need to try and put yourself into the position of someone else. It's possible to get a hold of most people 24/7 and when something goes ignored for an extended period of time, it can be easy to feel ignored. The downside from this technological world with everything being so very instantaneous, is that your privacy and "alone" time is cut effectively down to zero, especially if you carry a phone around you these days. Some have incredibly complex rules, and prioritize certain individuals above others when it comes to communicating and responding. When it comes to initiations and responses, people are like night and day too. In fact, I always enjoy disparity even with people whom I do not agree with, just because there should always be room for people to embrace their differences. Just because I have my view on life and other humans, doesn't mean I don't understand that it might be very different to someone else. I have my set of ideas, I know what i value greatly in others as well as what I highly dislike. It really depends greatly on each friendship. You know how each other think or feel in most situations and your empathy ensures that neither feel left alone at any given time. Typically you would connect it with someone whom has a lot of similar traits, basically you can reflect yourself greatly in that person. I believe that what makes a true friend is entirely up to each individual to decide. What really makes a true friend? Some people say that true friends can go without speaking for months. Sadly if i cut everyone out fitting that description I would be one lonely fellow. I don't like it but I just go on with life Edited Decemby davema So since everyone has gotten used to not phoning someone up, they can easily ignore a text or ignore an email or put it off for a while until they remember or feel like getting to it. Hardly anyone I know calls me if they need to reach me, they text or email. This world has become an EMAIL, TEXT, I'LL GET back TO YOU WHEN I GET back TO YOU society. ![]() I prefer talking on the phone or seeing people in person when I need to communicate with them. Social relations have really changed a lot. ![]() I have friends I'll call that won't call back at all or will call back a week later saying they 'have just been so busy' or friends that I'll text who won't text back at all, then they will call a month later asking to hang out or grab a beer, etc. ![]() They are selfish but we all are in some ways, we're human. Some people go about their lives and get busy and don't answer stuff or text back or call back. It could be that you are so in tune (ultra-conscious) with giving and waiting on a response than most are. If you don't want to change, then get used to going unanswered and not getting back what you give.īut I would say you should cut back on the 'giving' to see if you start 'getting'. ![]()
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